Tuesday, March 12, 2024

Not so sweet sixteen …


 My sweet girl. 

This year is a big one. 

Such an important birthday. 

Full of sweetness and parties. 

Friends and family. 

Sixteen. 

Sweet. 

Sixteen.

Doesn’t feel sweet. 

Sixteen candles 

Still burning. 

Because you never took a breath. 

Instead of celebrating.

Like every year

I miss you instead.

My baby girl. 

That my body failed.

The one who never had a chance to live.

The girl I longed for and loved.

Every day since I knew you existed. 

The girl whose graveside I sat beside.

Every 

Single 

Day

month after month 

Day after day. 

I owe you so much. 

You have given me empathy. 

Taught me perseverance. 

Showed me how strong I can be. 

Most days I don’t feel so strong. 

Days like your birthday. 

I feel like a failure. 

Moms are supposed to protect. 

Help our babies grow strong. 

Keep them safe from harm. 

You my sweet girl

Never had any of those things.

Of all of the children I have called my own

You are 

The one I have always questioned if I failed. 

You are 

The one I have grieved with regret 

You are 

The daughter I have longed to hold for so long.

Sixteen years 

Without you.

The days have gotten better.

Time has made us heal.

But forever 

Without end

We are missing a piece.

A space

You should fill.

I hope they celebrate in Heaven today. 

With balloons and cake.

What we wouldn’t give 

To have you here. 

Our forever baby girl 

Happy Sweet 16 Emma Jean 

Your loving mama, 

Me 

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